Re “you, edited you,” I¬¥d argue that the F2F KF (and the F2F meg, and the F2F Jonathan…) are edited too. It¬¥s just that some of us self-edit with the editing tool set to Blurt Mode.

[FWIW, the same colleague/friend who made the comment to KF told me that my blog tells absolutely nothing about myself. So even a blurt like me can switch into Ice Princess Mode in certain venues.]